http://alfredpang.com/2008/05/i-probably-come-across-as-a-pretty-scary-person/ doing whatever it takes Thu, 01 Jul 2010 14:46:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://alfredpang.com/2008/05/i-probably-come-across-as-a-pretty-scary-person/comment-page-1/#comment-48 wyn Fri, 16 May 2008 21:09:09 +0000 http://alfredpang.com/?p=72#comment-48 I think I used to be like that, too, scary to the person I'm talking to. I had this intense need to make every interaction jam-packed and informative, primarily for myself. I eschewed smalltalk (I still HATE talking about the weather). Like you, I tested INTJ as well, in a 100+ question test so I believe it. (I thought I was ENTJ by my own administered test but I'm actually "I" and not "E", by far.) Then came The Great Mellowing. I chilled out for the most part in my mid-20s. I prioritized and my family became the most important thing to me. Then school, then friends. Previously, I think I was on "High" for every part of life. I think I used to be like that, too, scary to the person I’m talking to. I had this intense need to make every interaction jam-packed and informative, primarily for myself. I eschewed smalltalk (I still HATE talking about the weather). Like you, I tested INTJ as well, in a 100+ question test so I believe it. (I thought I was ENTJ by my own administered test but I’m actually “I” and not “E”, by far.) Then came The Great Mellowing. I chilled out for the most part in my mid-20s. I prioritized and my family became the most important thing to me. Then school, then friends. Previously, I think I was on “High” for every part of life.

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